Also I had no idea girls just wanna have fun was a cover of a 70s song, with a male singer no less. I likes it.
I disagree with the notion that saying "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" is inherently sexist or bad though. Like, it's a mutual thing, isn't it? If it can be perceived as sexist it's more a problem with how the language works than a problem with the actual term, which is fairly straight forward. Sort of the same as calling someone your brother or sister, or even your friend.
Like yh you should strive to be your own person, but that shouldn't diminish the value of a shared experience either.
I will say that there are far too many people today eager to label themselves and define themselves as being part of a group. Groups are fucking stupid. “The intelligence of that creature known as a crowd is the square root of the number of people in it”.
tl;dr be smart and be your own person, but shared experiences and strong relationships are valuable and important too
Jackho
Four albums you'd recommend go